Thinking of what to give your woman? Actions speak louder so instead of splurging on an expensive dinner, why not give your woman a massage at the comfort of your home.
Massage is an excellent way to relieve her stress and make her relax especially after a day’s work leaving her feeling warm, tension-free and even sexy. It also creates a therapeutic effect. It can even enhance your loving relationship as it gives both you and your woman a romantic and intimate moment to bond.
WHAT YOU NEED
Ambiance is the key; you need a place that is relaxing. Enhance the ambiance by dimming the lights or by using scented candles to give a luminous effect to the room. Turn on some relaxing and soothing music. Have it play throughout the massage. These things help to relax the mind as well as the body.
If you don’t have a massage table in your home, use a bed which is firm yet comfortable or just place a mat on the floor.
Use massage oil. It can be easily absorbed by the skin and does not easily disappear as compared to a lotion and it reduces friction making it easier to knead her stressed body.
You will also need a blanket or towel to cover her body.
Massage tools like a massage ball or a rolling tool can also enhance the massage experience.
You don’t need to be an expert to be able to give a good massage. Anybody can give one like a trained pro.
First, have your woman lie on her stomach. Once she’s comfortable, use the blanket or towel to cover her body. Pour just enough massage oil on your palm. Don’t pour it straight onto her body. Rub your hands together to warm the oil before you apply it. Start with slow and soothing strokes. Once you feel her muscles have relax you may increase the pressure. But ask her how she likes the pressure or where she would like you to focus on. Avoid pressing too hard as it may cause pain instead of pleasure.
Begin from one point of her body then move on to the next adjoining part. You may start with her neck or shoulders since these parts are highly sensitive to tension. These areas can be a great place to begin a massage so that her tension is eased right from the start. Then you may work your way down. As you work, remove the towel only on the area of her body you want to massage. Then cover it again to keep the area warm. Once it’s done, wipe her body with a towel to remove the oil.
It may not be equivalent to a professional massage but surely it’s a heck of a good one since it is being done by her man. All you need is a gentle touch, a few massage skills and it will surely be appreciated by your woman. So grab your woman now and give her a relaxing and enjoyable massage experience.